Speaking Up is not a baf thing or is it?
Nov 13, 2008 | Categorized Under: Thoughts | | CommentsSpeaking up has always been a daunting task for me. Up until recent years I have never really spoken up for that matter. But I am starting to speak up more often as I realize it is nothing bad about me if the reason I am doing that makes more sense than not doing it.
For the sake of sanity I have to speak up in circumstances that I can’t bear no more but has no other options.
There are also situation where the other party may not even realize how their behavior and action is affecting me without letting them know. I might hurt their feeling the time I speak up, but it will save my feeling and sanity from getting hurt too many times.
And speaking up is not necessarily a bad thing. Our society accepts people who truthfully speaks up as a leader; examples would be Martin Luther King who spoke up to achieve equal rights for African Americans.